That was the topic on Oprah's show yesterday. It was pretty interesting to know that men don't cheat just for sex.. Shocking.. I know trust me... I thought that would be the only reason they would wander off. But as Gary (expert Jewish guy) kept saying there is an emotional disconnection from the husband and wife that takes place first. The man tends to feel unappreciated and is often not acknowledged for any of the small minor things that he does to make his wife happy and content.
It's crazy when he said that married couples on average speak for "12 minutes a day". How insane is that?? But I guess when you look at all the things that you need to take care of on an average day (work, cook, clean, watch after the kids, put them to sleep) is pretty clear to see why there is no time for communication.
And to think this is the #1 reason for divorces today... Communication
Of course money will always be an issue as well, but those are things that could always be attained, but if you do not have the item above as well as honesty, your relationship will be doomed for failure..
OK, I am preaching way to much... :)
Man, I love me some Oprah...
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